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Master Don Juan
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All you doomsayers better get ready!
comic_relief
All you doomsayers better get ready!
comic_relief
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Actually...at the graduate level...the U.S. has the best education in engineering, math and science. To the point that the vast majority studying there are Japanese, Chinese, Indians, Pakistanies, Europeans...and a few Americans.SmoothTalker said:I guess that's the nail in the coffin for Americans that want to say they have a good education system for math and science..
Seriously though stuff like this does happen, everyone makes mistakes - though when you release figures publicly perhaps somebody should double check.
Good for the kid though.
And a bit scary for us, 1/450 are not very long odds for this sort of thing.
I remember when that post was first made. Ah, that takes me back.Francisco d'Anconia said:Someone get in touch with that kid and have him check this:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=51916
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
We actually have 4 different kind of high schools.Papermoon said:3. While it is always fun to talk about stupid Americans, don't underestimate your country. In germany, e.g., there is a system of 3 different kinds of highschool, only one leads to university. If you compare pupils from this school type, they will score higher then pupils from an average american highschool. But they will also score higher than the pupils from the other German types of schools.
And to think they have eliminated calculus in Ontario :crazy:. I wish the high school system was a bit tougher here. I find it stupid that parents here are up in arms because their kid has to spend an extra 15 minutes a day on homework. What's the big deal?SmoothTalker said:Latinoman, I know its good at the graduate level. But as you point out, most of the people that reach that level aren't American (same thing's going on in Canada), because up to high school and possibly even undergrad, its worthless.
I was more saying, a German kid knew enough math to figure this out when he's 13, even though this is pretty advanced stuff.
Its just worrisome when statistics say Canadian high schools are globally competitive, and then at the University level you start seeing all these foreign students that learned first and second year university math back when they were 15. We baby young people way too much in high school, if we want to compete in the world it's time we seriously taught some things.
There is a lot of focus on new teaching methods and pandering to different learning styles and all that jazz, but the bottom line is, extremely effective teaching isn't useful if there's no real material being taught.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.