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Master Don Juan
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All you doomsayers better get ready!
comic_relief
All you doomsayers better get ready!
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Actually...at the graduate level...the U.S. has the best education in engineering, math and science. To the point that the vast majority studying there are Japanese, Chinese, Indians, Pakistanies, Europeans...and a few Americans.SmoothTalker said:I guess that's the nail in the coffin for Americans that want to say they have a good education system for math and science..
Seriously though stuff like this does happen, everyone makes mistakes - though when you release figures publicly perhaps somebody should double check.
Good for the kid though.
And a bit scary for us, 1/450 are not very long odds for this sort of thing.
I remember when that post was first made. Ah, that takes me back.Francisco d'Anconia said:Someone get in touch with that kid and have him check this:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=51916
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
We actually have 4 different kind of high schools.Papermoon said:3. While it is always fun to talk about stupid Americans, don't underestimate your country. In germany, e.g., there is a system of 3 different kinds of highschool, only one leads to university. If you compare pupils from this school type, they will score higher then pupils from an average american highschool. But they will also score higher than the pupils from the other German types of schools.
And to think they have eliminated calculus in Ontario :crazy:. I wish the high school system was a bit tougher here. I find it stupid that parents here are up in arms because their kid has to spend an extra 15 minutes a day on homework. What's the big deal?SmoothTalker said:Latinoman, I know its good at the graduate level. But as you point out, most of the people that reach that level aren't American (same thing's going on in Canada), because up to high school and possibly even undergrad, its worthless.
I was more saying, a German kid knew enough math to figure this out when he's 13, even though this is pretty advanced stuff.
Its just worrisome when statistics say Canadian high schools are globally competitive, and then at the University level you start seeing all these foreign students that learned first and second year university math back when they were 15. We baby young people way too much in high school, if we want to compete in the world it's time we seriously taught some things.
There is a lot of focus on new teaching methods and pandering to different learning styles and all that jazz, but the bottom line is, extremely effective teaching isn't useful if there's no real material being taught.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.