"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Geek Chicks!

lebRambo

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Hey guys,

is it just me, or is the hot but kinda geeky girl just so much hotter BECAUSE she is a geek? I mean, I'm a bit of a nerd (software engineer, so it comes with the territory) but I LOVE geeky girls. Especially when you don't know that they are a geek to begin with, but then find it out later.

Oh, while we are on the subject, check these out: HTTPanties!

http://www.thinkgeek.com/tshirts/ladies/6792/

^^ If you get this, you rule!


I once saw a hottie with SYN on the front of her shirt and ACK on the back (TCP/IP handshake protocol). Oh man, I laughed my ass off.

So give it up for all the geeky girls out there! :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I like them because they are usually sleeper hotties. New clothes, makeup. SOme of them really clean up well. Lol.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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comic_relief

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Upthere said:
I like them because they are usually sleeper hotties. New clothes, makeup. SOme of them really clean up well. Lol.
damn straight,

I love the nerdy chicks. My previous girlfriend was a nerd. She like Inuyasha, was valevictorian (sp), liked to read, and many other nerdy things. They are the girls that don't know that they are beautiful.

I love it, but I am currently seeing a self-proclaimed "music nerd."

comic_relief
 

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Well in my experience geeky girls can be a lot of fun to hang out with and some I know are pretty hot! and at least geeky girls arent snobbish and stuck up their own arse.
 

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its probably cuz theres something of a taboo. like a church girl, ppl tend to think that geek girls are sexually repressed, therefore they have kind of a taboo appeal.


I agree, some geek girls dress up Veeeerrrryyyy nice :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yotsuya-san

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Just what is a geek chick supposed to be anyway?

Just where did this trend come from?
My opinion is that the term "geek" is not meant to be a self-applied moniker. It is a derogatory label for someone who is smart but socially inept. Why do so many girls deliberately adopt the geek image?

http://www.thinkgeek.com/tshirts/ladies/6792/

lebRambo, I have seen this site and it reinforces the notion that nerds and geeks have become too trendy. Unfortunately, this does nothing for real geeks who are still alone with themselves.
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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these threads are dumb.

lets just say hot girls are hot... and ugly girls are ugly.

geek chick can be ugly or hot...
preppy girl can be ugly or hot...
punk girls can be ugly or hot.

stop generalizing EVERYONE.

if you think a fat geek chick is hot for being a geek. ...well thats sick.

i personally find hot chicks hot.
 
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