A girl from my company but works in a different office told some other people she thinks I'm gay after I went out with her. I should forget her but I need to prove I'm not. anybody have any idea how I should procede. She won't return my calls.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Gay
- Thread starter Bayou
- Start date
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
The Bartender
Senior Don Juan
Did you find out why they think you're gay? Is she spreading rumors or did you act gay?
MindOverMatter
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It's been said a million times, don't date women at work, don't sh!t where you eat, but you people don't listen. You're lucky she only said you were gay, she could have easily accused you of sexual harassment and gotten you fired, when will you people learn.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
if this is the case then she probably told a freind of hers tongue in cheek that she thinks you are gay, so basicly joking, and her freind probalby started the rumour.
It could be all kinds of reasons even a test to see how you react to being under fire
It could be all kinds of reasons even a test to see how you react to being under fire
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
-HPNOTIQ-
Master Don Juan
Yea dood you're GAY! haha..jk bro
Looks like what happened is that you must have missed ALL of her buying signals so she thinks you're a chump now.
With people nowdays, gay doesnt necessarily mean she thinks you're homosexual. Her calling you gay helps keep her on her pedistal.
"I gave him all the buying signals and he didnt even try to kiss me..he MUST BE GAY"
YEa...I'm with MIND OVER MATTER...don't dip your pen in the company ink.