A girl from my company but works in a different office told some other people she thinks I'm gay after I went out with her. I should forget her but I need to prove I'm not. anybody have any idea how I should procede. She won't return my calls.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Gay
- Thread starter Bayou
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
The Bartender
Senior Don Juan
Did you find out why they think you're gay? Is she spreading rumors or did you act gay?
MindOverMatter
Master Don Juan
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It's been said a million times, don't date women at work, don't sh!t where you eat, but you people don't listen. You're lucky she only said you were gay, she could have easily accused you of sexual harassment and gotten you fired, when will you people learn.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
if this is the case then she probably told a freind of hers tongue in cheek that she thinks you are gay, so basicly joking, and her freind probalby started the rumour.
It could be all kinds of reasons even a test to see how you react to being under fire
It could be all kinds of reasons even a test to see how you react to being under fire
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
-HPNOTIQ-
Master Don Juan
Yea dood you're GAY! haha..jk bro
Looks like what happened is that you must have missed ALL of her buying signals so she thinks you're a chump now.
With people nowdays, gay doesnt necessarily mean she thinks you're homosexual. Her calling you gay helps keep her on her pedistal.
"I gave him all the buying signals and he didnt even try to kiss me..he MUST BE GAY"
YEa...I'm with MIND OVER MATTER...don't dip your pen in the company ink.