this girl I have been gaming has been pushing and pulling me and is starting 2 get on my nerves. I call her one day n she is been b1tchy and I her gay guy friend txts me later on and says " aw kait is such a b1tch to you, she's just playing hard to get ". if this girl is playing hard 2 get. what should I do to game her and how should I act?? I have been acting indifferent lately and distant so she has been acting like an AW so.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
gay guy says girl is playing hard 2 get
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Johnny_Kage
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Sounds to me like they're f*cking with u. Next the b*tch. With a girl like this, the chances are she'll come back to u when she sees u with someone else.
MooseGod
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Mushroom stamp. 70% of the time, it works EVERYTIME.
Gangster Of Love
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MooseGod said:
Please do tell what a Mushroom stamp is. Also, it works everytime would mean it works 100% of the time.
guitaronfire411
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What the heck does 70% of it working 100% everytime mean? 
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Gangster Of Love
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And also, stop getting girl sarging advice from gay guys.
Brules Rules
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Mushroom stamping is a lot like tea-bagging, only with the bit instead of the pieces.
HalfAddict
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Next
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
LostAndConfused
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theres a 69% chance that when you start approaching other chicks (essentially NEXTing her but not verbally), she will want you even more.
I.A.F.Y.B.
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Stop calling her and wait for her to call you. Or just next her. If she is playing games with you and being b!tchy all the time forget her.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
MooseGod
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It's where you pull out your **** and slap it down hard on her forehead, leaving a bright red mark of superiority. :rockon: :crackup:Gangster Of Love said:
Z Man
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LOL!
I recently found out one of my roommates is gay.
I keep my distance, and we each have a private room. Anyway, he was trying to give me advice about dating the other day, based on his experience with guys...like it is the same thing.
I recently found out one of my roommates is gay.
I keep my distance, and we each have a private room. Anyway, he was trying to give me advice about dating the other day, based on his experience with guys...like it is the same thing.
Haha.. I once had a gay friend try and tell me how to give a chick oral, cause he'd done it once a long time ago.Z Man said:Anyway, he was trying to give me advice about dating the other day, based on his experience with guys...like it is the same thing.
He said the trick was to draw the alphabet on her cl1t.
Still haven't bothered trying it.
to the OP;
You know what would really make her jealous? Hook up with her gay friend!
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Hors and homos are perverted and deviant characters of their natural selves!! Shun them!!dre007 said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.