I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Originally posted by KOSR
Maybe drop some vaseline along with it
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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
It's a name I came up with when I realised your repressed homosexual tendency'sOriginally posted by Don Ronny
"Knight of Sexual Relief"?
What kind of username is that?
I guess I am the "Duke of Penile Ejaculations" (or D.O.P.E. for short)![]()
Wait, so you realized your sexual relief was on KNIGHT levels when you felt like a sosuave poster was gay? Ummkay....Originally posted by KOSR
It's a name I came up with when I realised your repressed homosexual tendency'sAnd that doesn't mean i'm homosexual, I'll just chop of your head!
Coincedence because I asked to shorten my name because it was so long
Don Ronny hit by the gay bomb for sure.
Don Ronny.... Please take your immaturity along with your sexual frustration, and find another forum to post on... a forum that better suits your maturity levelsOriginally posted by Don Ronny
Wait, so you realized your sexual relief was on KNIGHT levels when you felt like a sosuave poster was gay? Ummkay....
The Ignore List rules!Originally posted by Aquatits
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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Funny how my username is spelt wrong when recieving that messageOriginally posted by Don Ronny
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I never knew that watching Queer Eye made u gay? I have friends that watch it all the time, and i accasionally watch it too, and i find it to be rather interesting and funny at times... doesnt make me, OR my friedns gay though. Queer Eye is entertaining, so everyone watches it, its not a programme that is made ONLY for GAY people to watch!Originally posted by diplomatic_lie
Well they must have been testing gay bombs on the US population because so many men are becoming gay. Just look at the viewing numbers for Queer Eye.