"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Desdinova

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This is just fvcked and I never thought I'd see the day. Found this ad on kijiji...

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Howdy:

I have 1 extra ticket to the journey concert this evening at ******. I am gay while male, 54, looking for a potential friend and mate to attend with me. FREE in Suite ticket available to the right candiate. Interested? Contact ASAP via email with phone name. I am into men wearing jeans and boots (boot fetish, urban cowboy type) Would please me very much if you were the same
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How is that an AFC display for gays? it's easy to get sex and companionship if you're gay. All they have to do is just what that guy did, the dynamics aren't the same as for heterosexuals, those guys aren't bottlenecked by women.
 
Desdinova

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AttackFormation said:
How is that an AFC display for gays? it's easy to get sex and companionship if you're gay. All they have to do is just what that guy did, the dynamics aren't the same as for heterosexuals, those guys aren't bottlenecked by women.
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That's a good point. Never thought about that. But then again, I'm incapable of thinking like a gay man.
 
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haha, attackformation homerun
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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As I always say, let the gay men do their thing. Have at it.. Leaves more single females in the pool for us. :up:
 
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