"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Gay AFCs

Desdinova

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This is just fvcked and I never thought I'd see the day. Found this ad on kijiji...

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Howdy:

I have 1 extra ticket to the journey concert this evening at ******. I am gay while male, 54, looking for a potential friend and mate to attend with me. FREE in Suite ticket available to the right candiate. Interested? Contact ASAP via email with phone name. I am into men wearing jeans and boots (boot fetish, urban cowboy type) Would please me very much if you were the same
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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AttackFormation

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How is that an AFC display for gays? it's easy to get sex and companionship if you're gay. All they have to do is just what that guy did, the dynamics aren't the same as for heterosexuals, those guys aren't bottlenecked by women.
 

Desdinova

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AttackFormation said:
How is that an AFC display for gays? it's easy to get sex and companionship if you're gay. All they have to do is just what that guy did, the dynamics aren't the same as for heterosexuals, those guys aren't bottlenecked by women.
That's a good point. Never thought about that. But then again, I'm incapable of thinking like a gay man.
 

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haha, attackformation homerun
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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As I always say, let the gay men do their thing. Have at it.. Leaves more single females in the pool for us. :up:
 
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