"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Desdinova

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This is just fvcked and I never thought I'd see the day. Found this ad on kijiji...

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Howdy:

I have 1 extra ticket to the journey concert this evening at ******. I am gay while male, 54, looking for a potential friend and mate to attend with me. FREE in Suite ticket available to the right candiate. Interested? Contact ASAP via email with phone name. I am into men wearing jeans and boots (boot fetish, urban cowboy type) Would please me very much if you were the same
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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How is that an AFC display for gays? it's easy to get sex and companionship if you're gay. All they have to do is just what that guy did, the dynamics aren't the same as for heterosexuals, those guys aren't bottlenecked by women.
 
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AttackFormation said:
How is that an AFC display for gays? it's easy to get sex and companionship if you're gay. All they have to do is just what that guy did, the dynamics aren't the same as for heterosexuals, those guys aren't bottlenecked by women.
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That's a good point. Never thought about that. But then again, I'm incapable of thinking like a gay man.
 
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haha, attackformation homerun
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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As I always say, let the gay men do their thing. Have at it.. Leaves more single females in the pool for us. :up:
 
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