"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This is just fvcked and I never thought I'd see the day. Found this ad on kijiji...

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Howdy:

I have 1 extra ticket to the journey concert this evening at ******. I am gay while male, 54, looking for a potential friend and mate to attend with me. FREE in Suite ticket available to the right candiate. Interested? Contact ASAP via email with phone name. I am into men wearing jeans and boots (boot fetish, urban cowboy type) Would please me very much if you were the same
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How is that an AFC display for gays? it's easy to get sex and companionship if you're gay. All they have to do is just what that guy did, the dynamics aren't the same as for heterosexuals, those guys aren't bottlenecked by women.
 
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AttackFormation said:
How is that an AFC display for gays? it's easy to get sex and companionship if you're gay. All they have to do is just what that guy did, the dynamics aren't the same as for heterosexuals, those guys aren't bottlenecked by women.
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That's a good point. Never thought about that. But then again, I'm incapable of thinking like a gay man.
 
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haha, attackformation homerun
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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As I always say, let the gay men do their thing. Have at it.. Leaves more single females in the pool for us. :up:
 
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