"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Gave a HB8 my number, she called 2 weeks later

Fatal Jay

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This HB8 I gave my number to two weeks back text me yesterday, whats funny whenever the girl gives me the "give me your number line" that lets me know she is not interested.

I use to always hear Tariq nasheed say (yes I know, a name drop) that if you give a girl your number and she actually contact you, then that mean she is interested.

Thing is, me and her are texting, I told her go out to the bar with me tonight (last night), and she told me she just left the bar with a friend (not my friend, a friend which is a guy probably)

Told her I was interested in getting to know her, I get no reply. Should I keep campaigning to this chick, or does it seem like she just wanted me to take her bait.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Fatal Jay said:
Told her I was interested in getting to know her, I get no reply.
I'm not a text guru, but that line was suicide. Call her up in a few days to plan a meet.
 

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BeginningDJ said:
I'm not a text guru, but that line was suicide. Call her up in a few days to plan a meet.
yeah thats to direct. dont tell her you want to get to know her, actually do things to get to know her ie - ask questions, dig deeper, and hang out with her.
 

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Fatal Jay said:
This HB8 I gave my number to two weeks back text me yesterday,
2 weeks later? If she was interested in you she wouldn't wait 2 weeks to contact you.

Fatal Jay said:
Thing is, me and her are texting, I told her go out to the bar with me tonight (last night), and she told me she just left the bar with a friend (not my friend, a friend which is a guy probably),
She is texting you but she is not going out with you. If she was interested in you she would want to see you. Not tell you she left a bar with a friend.


Fatal Jay said:
Told her I was interested in getting to know her, I get no reply. Should I keep campaigning to this chick, or does it seem like she just wanted me to take her bait.
LOL...You tell her what you wanted to do and you got her answer.....silence.

This means she is not interested in you. She has made it clear.

Why would you continue to campaign? You are wasting your time.

She waits 2 weeks to hit you up. Doesn't ask you to chill with her. Goes silent when you say you want to get to know her. You shouldn't text a girl that anyway.

Does this sound like a girl who wants to get it on with you? No it doesn't.

I don't understand why guys think these chicks are interested in them when they show them crystal clear signs of no interest. It is totally obvious. Why can't they see that?

Move on and don't play games with a girl who has no interest in you.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Lol this thread is old, I seriously forgot all about this girl.
 
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