"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Gave a HB8 my number, she called 2 weeks later

Fatal Jay

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This HB8 I gave my number to two weeks back text me yesterday, whats funny whenever the girl gives me the "give me your number line" that lets me know she is not interested.

I use to always hear Tariq nasheed say (yes I know, a name drop) that if you give a girl your number and she actually contact you, then that mean she is interested.

Thing is, me and her are texting, I told her go out to the bar with me tonight (last night), and she told me she just left the bar with a friend (not my friend, a friend which is a guy probably)

Told her I was interested in getting to know her, I get no reply. Should I keep campaigning to this chick, or does it seem like she just wanted me to take her bait.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Fatal Jay said:
Told her I was interested in getting to know her, I get no reply.
I'm not a text guru, but that line was suicide. Call her up in a few days to plan a meet.
 

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BeginningDJ said:
I'm not a text guru, but that line was suicide. Call her up in a few days to plan a meet.
yeah thats to direct. dont tell her you want to get to know her, actually do things to get to know her ie - ask questions, dig deeper, and hang out with her.
 

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Fatal Jay said:
This HB8 I gave my number to two weeks back text me yesterday,
2 weeks later? If she was interested in you she wouldn't wait 2 weeks to contact you.

Fatal Jay said:
Thing is, me and her are texting, I told her go out to the bar with me tonight (last night), and she told me she just left the bar with a friend (not my friend, a friend which is a guy probably),
She is texting you but she is not going out with you. If she was interested in you she would want to see you. Not tell you she left a bar with a friend.


Fatal Jay said:
Told her I was interested in getting to know her, I get no reply. Should I keep campaigning to this chick, or does it seem like she just wanted me to take her bait.
LOL...You tell her what you wanted to do and you got her answer.....silence.

This means she is not interested in you. She has made it clear.

Why would you continue to campaign? You are wasting your time.

She waits 2 weeks to hit you up. Doesn't ask you to chill with her. Goes silent when you say you want to get to know her. You shouldn't text a girl that anyway.

Does this sound like a girl who wants to get it on with you? No it doesn't.

I don't understand why guys think these chicks are interested in them when they show them crystal clear signs of no interest. It is totally obvious. Why can't they see that?

Move on and don't play games with a girl who has no interest in you.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Lol this thread is old, I seriously forgot all about this girl.
 
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