"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Gave a HB8 my number, she called 2 weeks later

Fatal Jay

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This HB8 I gave my number to two weeks back text me yesterday, whats funny whenever the girl gives me the "give me your number line" that lets me know she is not interested.

I use to always hear Tariq nasheed say (yes I know, a name drop) that if you give a girl your number and she actually contact you, then that mean she is interested.

Thing is, me and her are texting, I told her go out to the bar with me tonight (last night), and she told me she just left the bar with a friend (not my friend, a friend which is a guy probably)

Told her I was interested in getting to know her, I get no reply. Should I keep campaigning to this chick, or does it seem like she just wanted me to take her bait.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Fatal Jay said:
Told her I was interested in getting to know her, I get no reply.
I'm not a text guru, but that line was suicide. Call her up in a few days to plan a meet.
 

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BeginningDJ said:
I'm not a text guru, but that line was suicide. Call her up in a few days to plan a meet.
yeah thats to direct. dont tell her you want to get to know her, actually do things to get to know her ie - ask questions, dig deeper, and hang out with her.
 

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Fatal Jay said:
This HB8 I gave my number to two weeks back text me yesterday,
2 weeks later? If she was interested in you she wouldn't wait 2 weeks to contact you.

Fatal Jay said:
Thing is, me and her are texting, I told her go out to the bar with me tonight (last night), and she told me she just left the bar with a friend (not my friend, a friend which is a guy probably),
She is texting you but she is not going out with you. If she was interested in you she would want to see you. Not tell you she left a bar with a friend.


Fatal Jay said:
Told her I was interested in getting to know her, I get no reply. Should I keep campaigning to this chick, or does it seem like she just wanted me to take her bait.
LOL...You tell her what you wanted to do and you got her answer.....silence.

This means she is not interested in you. She has made it clear.

Why would you continue to campaign? You are wasting your time.

She waits 2 weeks to hit you up. Doesn't ask you to chill with her. Goes silent when you say you want to get to know her. You shouldn't text a girl that anyway.

Does this sound like a girl who wants to get it on with you? No it doesn't.

I don't understand why guys think these chicks are interested in them when they show them crystal clear signs of no interest. It is totally obvious. Why can't they see that?

Move on and don't play games with a girl who has no interest in you.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Lol this thread is old, I seriously forgot all about this girl.
 
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