Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
no matter how much oil we have, it still has to be refined. And a good bit of refineries were around New Orleans.Originally posted by Lost In Translation
yo Coolage
america had it's oil supply before the iraq war right ?
now thats alot of oil
now stay with me here
you go and get some oil from iraq
not at full capacity ? humour me. lets say it's at 20%
the oil you had before + 20% coming from iraq
= more than you started with before the war
BUT
you paying more for the oil even though you got more ?
SAY WHAT
you follow me now ?
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
It's not just the oil. It's all the f*cked up stuff that goes on over there. And you have to realize that that post was just a rant. In all honesty though, I do think the Middle East would be better off if we went in there full force and wiped out all the ruthless dictators and their followers, but I understand that that isn't the most practical thing to do.Originally posted by Luveno
Translation:
"wahhh wahhh wahhh, I want gas but the Middle East got it!!! It's too expensive here so lets go take it from them!!!! They don't do anything anyway"
Yes, the Middle East solely exists to act as an oil supply for the mostly obese US population, so they can drive around the Wal-Mart parking lot for hours looking for a spot that's close to the door.
Go buy a bike.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
yes, 3¤ for a gallon hoooooooow expeniveOriginally posted by aftershock
I suggest that you stop complaining until they are at European prices!
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Youre complaining like a little *****, whats complaining going to do? is it going to increase oil production? i highly doubt itOriginally posted by familyguyfan
And while complaining doesn't help, it's not like it's hurting us either. Furthermore, notice no one that has posted has just said something like "Boohoo, gas is too expensive!". People have been posting on why they think it is that way and what they think needs to be done to fix this problem. Sure, it won't help get rid of the problem, but it's nice to know why it's occurring and when and how it will stop.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.