You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
no matter how much oil we have, it still has to be refined. And a good bit of refineries were around New Orleans.Originally posted by Lost In Translation
yo Coolage
america had it's oil supply before the iraq war right ?
now thats alot of oil
now stay with me here
you go and get some oil from iraq
not at full capacity ? humour me. lets say it's at 20%
the oil you had before + 20% coming from iraq
= more than you started with before the war
BUT
you paying more for the oil even though you got more ?
SAY WHAT
you follow me now ?
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
It's not just the oil. It's all the f*cked up stuff that goes on over there. And you have to realize that that post was just a rant. In all honesty though, I do think the Middle East would be better off if we went in there full force and wiped out all the ruthless dictators and their followers, but I understand that that isn't the most practical thing to do.Originally posted by Luveno
Translation:
"wahhh wahhh wahhh, I want gas but the Middle East got it!!! It's too expensive here so lets go take it from them!!!! They don't do anything anyway"
Yes, the Middle East solely exists to act as an oil supply for the mostly obese US population, so they can drive around the Wal-Mart parking lot for hours looking for a spot that's close to the door.
Go buy a bike.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
yes, 3¤ for a gallon hoooooooow expeniveOriginally posted by aftershock
I suggest that you stop complaining until they are at European prices!
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Youre complaining like a little *****, whats complaining going to do? is it going to increase oil production? i highly doubt itOriginally posted by familyguyfan
And while complaining doesn't help, it's not like it's hurting us either. Furthermore, notice no one that has posted has just said something like "Boohoo, gas is too expensive!". People have been posting on why they think it is that way and what they think needs to be done to fix this problem. Sure, it won't help get rid of the problem, but it's nice to know why it's occurring and when and how it will stop.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.