mackdaddy27
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Have any of your heard of him and what do you think of his style of game?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I used to know a (80's) guy who trained me in my job and reminded me of him, except he could speak Spanish fluently (thereby impressing the women even more), rode a Harley Electra Standard was in a cool group of riders. The guy was bangin all kinds of women the few weeks I was with them. Dude chain smoked, had a fvcked up left eye injury, used a cane sometimes due to knee injury (I was replacing him for 3 months back then), well loved dude (only one person out of hundreds did not like him; he had nicknames for Everybody like 'Hippy' and 'Buzz' etc etc.) - I could Not fill his shoes, from Iowa originally 4-year degree, hunted frequently, just did all manly sh!t and almost ALL women loved the sh!t outta this dude. I'd say he was more of a jiggalo than Brodsky (don't know him, could be a big liar, could be the real deal, never met him), but the similarities in mentality are there, just badboy.zekko said:Thanks for the descriptioon, Poonani. I'm going to be honest here, from what you say, the guy sounds like he's borderline retarded.