mackdaddy27
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Have any of your heard of him and what do you think of his style of game?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I used to know a (80's) guy who trained me in my job and reminded me of him, except he could speak Spanish fluently (thereby impressing the women even more), rode a Harley Electra Standard was in a cool group of riders. The guy was bangin all kinds of women the few weeks I was with them. Dude chain smoked, had a fvcked up left eye injury, used a cane sometimes due to knee injury (I was replacing him for 3 months back then), well loved dude (only one person out of hundreds did not like him; he had nicknames for Everybody like 'Hippy' and 'Buzz' etc etc.) - I could Not fill his shoes, from Iowa originally 4-year degree, hunted frequently, just did all manly sh!t and almost ALL women loved the sh!t outta this dude. I'd say he was more of a jiggalo than Brodsky (don't know him, could be a big liar, could be the real deal, never met him), but the similarities in mentality are there, just badboy.zekko said:Thanks for the descriptioon, Poonani. I'm going to be honest here, from what you say, the guy sounds like he's borderline retarded.