mackdaddy27
Senior Don Juan
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Have any of your heard of him and what do you think of his style of game?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I used to know a (80's) guy who trained me in my job and reminded me of him, except he could speak Spanish fluently (thereby impressing the women even more), rode a Harley Electra Standard was in a cool group of riders. The guy was bangin all kinds of women the few weeks I was with them. Dude chain smoked, had a fvcked up left eye injury, used a cane sometimes due to knee injury (I was replacing him for 3 months back then), well loved dude (only one person out of hundreds did not like him; he had nicknames for Everybody like 'Hippy' and 'Buzz' etc etc.) - I could Not fill his shoes, from Iowa originally 4-year degree, hunted frequently, just did all manly sh!t and almost ALL women loved the sh!t outta this dude. I'd say he was more of a jiggalo than Brodsky (don't know him, could be a big liar, could be the real deal, never met him), but the similarities in mentality are there, just badboy.zekko said:Thanks for the descriptioon, Poonani. I'm going to be honest here, from what you say, the guy sounds like he's borderline retarded.