"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I went ganji on some chick I know, and I haven't talked to her for about 3 weeks, and I think she's starting to wonder why I'm not talking to her anymore, since like I catch her looking my way and she'll immediately look the other way....whats up with this sheot?

The reason I did this was because first of all, this chick used to be really cool with me and stuff, but all of the sudden it seemed like she was getting cold or whatever. And one day after I got done talking to her I accidently overheard her saying "that guy is so annoying" and that sh*t pissed me off, because I like people to be genuine wether they like me or not.

And I also have the feeling that her and her friend are trying to make me jealous or something because everytime I pass her by in the hallways, they all of the sudden start acting all slutty around a certain guys they know...Its so dumb, because I can see them looking at me from the corner of my eye. Its so f*cking childish.

If these c*nts are attracted to you, then they should show it rather than play games. Anyways, what would you guys suggest..keep going ganji on her, talk to her straight up and see whats up between us, or whatever...

then again, I might be percieving things incorrectly..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Bishop

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what you should be doing isnt ganji-ing her.

you should just be flat out ingoring the wh0re.
 
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Well, isn't ganji basically ignoring her ass?
 

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Ganji is ignoring as a means of gaining IL.

What The Bishop is telling you to do is NeXt her. I agree.
 

Ace of Spades

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I thought he was referring to wee with Ganji. I just figured he didn't know how to spell it.

Learned something then and there.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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