"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ganji

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I went ganji on some chick I know, and I haven't talked to her for about 3 weeks, and I think she's starting to wonder why I'm not talking to her anymore, since like I catch her looking my way and she'll immediately look the other way....whats up with this sheot?

The reason I did this was because first of all, this chick used to be really cool with me and stuff, but all of the sudden it seemed like she was getting cold or whatever. And one day after I got done talking to her I accidently overheard her saying "that guy is so annoying" and that sh*t pissed me off, because I like people to be genuine wether they like me or not.

And I also have the feeling that her and her friend are trying to make me jealous or something because everytime I pass her by in the hallways, they all of the sudden start acting all slutty around a certain guys they know...Its so dumb, because I can see them looking at me from the corner of my eye. Its so f*cking childish.

If these c*nts are attracted to you, then they should show it rather than play games. Anyways, what would you guys suggest..keep going ganji on her, talk to her straight up and see whats up between us, or whatever...

then again, I might be percieving things incorrectly..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Bishop

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what you should be doing isnt ganji-ing her.

you should just be flat out ingoring the wh0re.
 
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Well, isn't ganji basically ignoring her ass?
 

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Ganji is ignoring as a means of gaining IL.

What The Bishop is telling you to do is NeXt her. I agree.
 

Ace of Spades

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I thought he was referring to wee with Ganji. I just figured he didn't know how to spell it.

Learned something then and there.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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