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Don Juan
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advice please gentlemen
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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
do a ****ing search next time.Jukeboxhero said:WTH is Ganji?
Can someone please explain?
Bonez said:do a ****ing search next time.
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tell her you're going home and see if shes coming with you. Simple with the connection you've got.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
That is the greatest description I've ever heard coming from a retard that doesn't know how to use the search button.Jukeboxhero said:Alright, alright...no need to get all pissy.
So basically, Ganji is just completely ignoring a girl who doesn't seem to be interested in you to see if she actually is interested or not. Of course it has to be done with a girl you've already shown interest in and have known for awhile. I guess you're basically pretending you've moved on and don't have much interest in her anymore. Is that about the gist of it?