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Don Juan
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advice please gentlemen
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
do a ****ing search next time.Jukeboxhero said:WTH is Ganji?
Can someone please explain?
Bonez said:do a ****ing search next time.
juice
tell her you're going home and see if shes coming with you. Simple with the connection you've got.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
That is the greatest description I've ever heard coming from a retard that doesn't know how to use the search button.Jukeboxhero said:Alright, alright...no need to get all pissy.
So basically, Ganji is just completely ignoring a girl who doesn't seem to be interested in you to see if she actually is interested or not. Of course it has to be done with a girl you've already shown interest in and have known for awhile. I guess you're basically pretending you've moved on and don't have much interest in her anymore. Is that about the gist of it?