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Don Juan
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advice please gentlemen
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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
do a ****ing search next time.Jukeboxhero said:WTH is Ganji?
Can someone please explain?
Bonez said:do a ****ing search next time.
juice
tell her you're going home and see if shes coming with you. Simple with the connection you've got.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
That is the greatest description I've ever heard coming from a retard that doesn't know how to use the search button.Jukeboxhero said:Alright, alright...no need to get all pissy.
So basically, Ganji is just completely ignoring a girl who doesn't seem to be interested in you to see if she actually is interested or not. Of course it has to be done with a girl you've already shown interest in and have known for awhile. I guess you're basically pretending you've moved on and don't have much interest in her anymore. Is that about the gist of it?