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Don Juan
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advice please gentlemen
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
do a ****ing search next time.Jukeboxhero said:WTH is Ganji?
Can someone please explain?
Bonez said:do a ****ing search next time.
juice
tell her you're going home and see if shes coming with you. Simple with the connection you've got.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
That is the greatest description I've ever heard coming from a retard that doesn't know how to use the search button.Jukeboxhero said:Alright, alright...no need to get all pissy.
So basically, Ganji is just completely ignoring a girl who doesn't seem to be interested in you to see if she actually is interested or not. Of course it has to be done with a girl you've already shown interest in and have known for awhile. I guess you're basically pretending you've moved on and don't have much interest in her anymore. Is that about the gist of it?