Poonani Maker
Master Don Juan
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How do YOU game the most reserved or "traditional" paranoid girls?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The majority of christian girls are among the biggest hypocrites you'll ever meet.Poonani Maker said:How do YOU game the most reserved or "traditional" paranoid girls?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
My ex girlfriend was Christian, church every Sunday, went to a Christian public school her whole life, all of that.Poonani Maker said:How do YOU game the most reserved or "traditional" paranoid girls?
I'm concerned with this one on that line of thought too. She may possess both of those traits. She is Very close with her Swedish girlfriend. I think quite a few Christians Are abject hypocrites in that the "daddies" of these families would turn a blind eye or overlook their daughter's possessing lesbian traits, because that way, no harm will ever come to his daughter by the KNOWN violent and aggressive male. We are labeled now, all throughout society, as despicable if we reside within ourselves, within our male-flesh-eating selves. We Should be carnivores but society tries to make all of us males weak little vegetarians.guywhoneedshelp said:Also towards the end of the relationship she started admitting she was really attracted to girls and she would make out with them all the time.
ONE NOTE - She was never able to reach orgasm, and I heard a strong Christian upbringing could have something to do with that.
Poonani Maker you must become a Christian boy, and become reserved and traditional paranoid boy.Poonani Maker said:How do YOU game the most reserved or "traditional" paranoid girls?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Are you serious? Do you want to become involved with someone that manipulative, that cunning, that deceptive?Poonani Maker said:Ok, after church this morning, I think I know what's happening now. Her other friend - not the Swedish one - is misleading her about me in order to siphon off her interest in me. Her Friend is sabotaging her and my fragile relationship in order to get to me. I see the light now. She's looking at me with the doggie bowl eyes. She's also not 9, but 11 years younger than I am. I wasn't attracted to her friend, but since she's gotten herself all dolled up now, I'm becoming sucked in by her. She knows a good thing when she sees it, AND she knows how to stab her friend in the back to steal me from her. She's cunning quick and deceptive in that sense. And in that sense, she's more fit to be my wife if it should go there. To the victor goes the spoils - Me.
This is a wait n' see kinda thing but I'm seeing/feeling that head-over-heels look from this younger one. I could be wrong but I think I'm not.
I know her father too.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Some women will backwards rationalize their sexual actions. They rarely accept liability for their actions and will blame others, claim they were drunk, whatever. Again, not the type of women you want to have anything serious with.War Against Betaism said:I haven't really dated those christian christian girls, but some of my friends did and got into their pants fairly easily. One of them who I thought was still a virgin is looked upon as the future of the church, is a sweetheart, has her own bible study group, though my friend already banged her. She always blames him afterwards every time they do it too. It proves that a woman's sexual drive is stronger than her religious beliefs.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.