Poonani Maker
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How do YOU game the most reserved or "traditional" paranoid girls?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The majority of christian girls are among the biggest hypocrites you'll ever meet.Poonani Maker said:How do YOU game the most reserved or "traditional" paranoid girls?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
My ex girlfriend was Christian, church every Sunday, went to a Christian public school her whole life, all of that.Poonani Maker said:How do YOU game the most reserved or "traditional" paranoid girls?
I'm concerned with this one on that line of thought too. She may possess both of those traits. She is Very close with her Swedish girlfriend. I think quite a few Christians Are abject hypocrites in that the "daddies" of these families would turn a blind eye or overlook their daughter's possessing lesbian traits, because that way, no harm will ever come to his daughter by the KNOWN violent and aggressive male. We are labeled now, all throughout society, as despicable if we reside within ourselves, within our male-flesh-eating selves. We Should be carnivores but society tries to make all of us males weak little vegetarians.guywhoneedshelp said:Also towards the end of the relationship she started admitting she was really attracted to girls and she would make out with them all the time.
ONE NOTE - She was never able to reach orgasm, and I heard a strong Christian upbringing could have something to do with that.
Poonani Maker you must become a Christian boy, and become reserved and traditional paranoid boy.Poonani Maker said:How do YOU game the most reserved or "traditional" paranoid girls?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Are you serious? Do you want to become involved with someone that manipulative, that cunning, that deceptive?Poonani Maker said:Ok, after church this morning, I think I know what's happening now. Her other friend - not the Swedish one - is misleading her about me in order to siphon off her interest in me. Her Friend is sabotaging her and my fragile relationship in order to get to me. I see the light now. She's looking at me with the doggie bowl eyes. She's also not 9, but 11 years younger than I am. I wasn't attracted to her friend, but since she's gotten herself all dolled up now, I'm becoming sucked in by her. She knows a good thing when she sees it, AND she knows how to stab her friend in the back to steal me from her. She's cunning quick and deceptive in that sense. And in that sense, she's more fit to be my wife if it should go there. To the victor goes the spoils - Me.
This is a wait n' see kinda thing but I'm seeing/feeling that head-over-heels look from this younger one. I could be wrong but I think I'm not.
I know her father too.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Some women will backwards rationalize their sexual actions. They rarely accept liability for their actions and will blame others, claim they were drunk, whatever. Again, not the type of women you want to have anything serious with.War Against Betaism said:I haven't really dated those christian christian girls, but some of my friends did and got into their pants fairly easily. One of them who I thought was still a virgin is looked upon as the future of the church, is a sweetheart, has her own bible study group, though my friend already banged her. She always blames him afterwards every time they do it too. It proves that a woman's sexual drive is stronger than her religious beliefs.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.