RadRad
Don Juan
I have a 5 year reunion coming up and I was wondering if there are any sPecific tips for trying to game girls who knew me in the most awkward stage of my life.
Thank you!
Thank you!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Gaming at a High School reunion; Advice?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
gray_fox_9
Don Juan
I actually just hooked up with a girl this weekend I went to high school with and haven't seen in 5 years or so. I didn't really even think about how I used to be. I just showed her how I was now and she went for it. Don't put too much pressure on how you were in high school. I don't think too many people remember how everyone in high school acted. Just be your DJ self and have a good time with everyone. Make sure to post a FR after you go. Good luck!
DJ Wrangler
Don Juan
yea, just dont even worry about the "weirdest stage of your life" and use your moves, highly unlikely everyone is going remember you picking your nose at the lunch table... lol
Good luck!
Good luck!
Chill and relax, I see people from high school all the time around the city and they're always very excited to see anyone they knew from back in the day. Even if they did remember a reputation you had when you were 15, I'm sure they don't care.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
RadRad
Don Juan
Thanks guys. Will do! 
jesusrules
Senior Don Juan
i think it should be fine. atleast you can talk about old school days when you have nothing to talk about lol.