RadRad
Don Juan
I have a 5 year reunion coming up and I was wondering if there are any sPecific tips for trying to game girls who knew me in the most awkward stage of my life.
Thank you!
Thank you!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Gaming at a High School reunion; Advice?
- Thread starter RadRad
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
gray_fox_9
Don Juan
I actually just hooked up with a girl this weekend I went to high school with and haven't seen in 5 years or so. I didn't really even think about how I used to be. I just showed her how I was now and she went for it. Don't put too much pressure on how you were in high school. I don't think too many people remember how everyone in high school acted. Just be your DJ self and have a good time with everyone. Make sure to post a FR after you go. Good luck!
DJ Wrangler
Don Juan
yea, just dont even worry about the "weirdest stage of your life" and use your moves, highly unlikely everyone is going remember you picking your nose at the lunch table... lol
Good luck!
Good luck!
Chill and relax, I see people from high school all the time around the city and they're always very excited to see anyone they knew from back in the day. Even if they did remember a reputation you had when you were 15, I'm sure they don't care.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
RadRad
Don Juan
Thanks guys. Will do! 
jesusrules
Senior Don Juan
i think it should be fine. atleast you can talk about old school days when you have nothing to talk about lol.