"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Gaming at a High School reunion; Advice?

RadRad

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I have a 5 year reunion coming up and I was wondering if there are any sPecific tips for trying to game girls who knew me in the most awkward stage of my life.

Thank you!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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gray_fox_9

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I actually just hooked up with a girl this weekend I went to high school with and haven't seen in 5 years or so. I didn't really even think about how I used to be. I just showed her how I was now and she went for it. Don't put too much pressure on how you were in high school. I don't think too many people remember how everyone in high school acted. Just be your DJ self and have a good time with everyone. Make sure to post a FR after you go. Good luck!
 

DJ Wrangler

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yea, just dont even worry about the "weirdest stage of your life" and use your moves, highly unlikely everyone is going remember you picking your nose at the lunch table... lol

Good luck!
 

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Go, have FUN, be "cool," enjoy your night.

And if you see a girl you want to hit on, DO IT.


No expectations. Just fun.

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Effington

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Chill and relax, I see people from high school all the time around the city and they're always very excited to see anyone they knew from back in the day. Even if they did remember a reputation you had when you were 15, I'm sure they don't care.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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