"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Gaming a Very Smart, accomplished girl : Any advice?

mackdaddy27

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I was wondering if any of you , have any experience, could advise me on a situation. .. I am with this girl , who is a Harvard educated, who is successful career wise, has like 3 degrees and is really PUSHING ME TO 1) reveal more about myself 2) show myself my personality .3) be more outgoing with her?

What things do you have to do differently to game a really bright, successful career women ?

I noticed that , shyt like your car or your condo doesnt' even impress her.

I noticed that she 'knows' , a lot of 'game' , but shes picks up on every little detail like a hawk. Like a Hawk. I just want her to commit emotionally so things may get easier from there.

Any Experiences/Advice/suggestions, please ?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DonGorgon

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I tried to game a PHD HB7 and failed... you better be either very bright or very physically attractive to her... A woman like that will be extremely choosey cause she doesnt need you at all..

Oh i just hit 1,500 posts hip hip hip hurray!!!!!
Oh i just hit 1,500 posts hip hip hip hurray!!!!!
Oh i just hit 1,500 posts hip hip hip hurray!!!!!
 

PhatE1vis

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Sounds like you're letting her pedigree hold you back. Don't let it intimidate you (I'm an Ivy League grad myself, and let me tell you, it's really not a big deal). Obviously, coming up with a some perfect strategy to game a smart girl isn't working for you, she's seeing right through it, so I'd suggest you approach her like you would any other girl (as a MAN). If that doesn't work, then you didn't really lose anything because you never had it to begin with.
 

ZenGodMod

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It doesn't matter if she is smarter, faster, stronger or has 4 arms.

She is afterall a woman, and that shall never change. She will be attracted to quality men like all women.

Her being smarter is a plus, she is less superficial and you'd not have to play games with her.
 

Sir I

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DROP the SHE DID SHE HAS .. what ever part, just go for it and do not adjust your tactics of what ever she has done,YOU have found her worthy enough of your time.. and what ever she thinks she will show eventually. anything else is more into the category of "what ever"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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