"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Gaming a Very Smart, accomplished girl : Any advice?

mackdaddy27

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I was wondering if any of you , have any experience, could advise me on a situation. .. I am with this girl , who is a Harvard educated, who is successful career wise, has like 3 degrees and is really PUSHING ME TO 1) reveal more about myself 2) show myself my personality .3) be more outgoing with her?

What things do you have to do differently to game a really bright, successful career women ?

I noticed that , shyt like your car or your condo doesnt' even impress her.

I noticed that she 'knows' , a lot of 'game' , but shes picks up on every little detail like a hawk. Like a Hawk. I just want her to commit emotionally so things may get easier from there.

Any Experiences/Advice/suggestions, please ?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DonGorgon

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I tried to game a PHD HB7 and failed... you better be either very bright or very physically attractive to her... A woman like that will be extremely choosey cause she doesnt need you at all..

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Oh i just hit 1,500 posts hip hip hip hurray!!!!!
Oh i just hit 1,500 posts hip hip hip hurray!!!!!
 

PhatE1vis

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Sounds like you're letting her pedigree hold you back. Don't let it intimidate you (I'm an Ivy League grad myself, and let me tell you, it's really not a big deal). Obviously, coming up with a some perfect strategy to game a smart girl isn't working for you, she's seeing right through it, so I'd suggest you approach her like you would any other girl (as a MAN). If that doesn't work, then you didn't really lose anything because you never had it to begin with.
 

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It doesn't matter if she is smarter, faster, stronger or has 4 arms.

She is afterall a woman, and that shall never change. She will be attracted to quality men like all women.

Her being smarter is a plus, she is less superficial and you'd not have to play games with her.
 

Sir I

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DROP the SHE DID SHE HAS .. what ever part, just go for it and do not adjust your tactics of what ever she has done,YOU have found her worthy enough of your time.. and what ever she thinks she will show eventually. anything else is more into the category of "what ever"
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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