"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Gaming a Very Smart, accomplished girl : Any advice?

mackdaddy27

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I was wondering if any of you , have any experience, could advise me on a situation. .. I am with this girl , who is a Harvard educated, who is successful career wise, has like 3 degrees and is really PUSHING ME TO 1) reveal more about myself 2) show myself my personality .3) be more outgoing with her?

What things do you have to do differently to game a really bright, successful career women ?

I noticed that , shyt like your car or your condo doesnt' even impress her.

I noticed that she 'knows' , a lot of 'game' , but shes picks up on every little detail like a hawk. Like a Hawk. I just want her to commit emotionally so things may get easier from there.

Any Experiences/Advice/suggestions, please ?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DonGorgon

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I tried to game a PHD HB7 and failed... you better be either very bright or very physically attractive to her... A woman like that will be extremely choosey cause she doesnt need you at all..

Oh i just hit 1,500 posts hip hip hip hurray!!!!!
Oh i just hit 1,500 posts hip hip hip hurray!!!!!
Oh i just hit 1,500 posts hip hip hip hurray!!!!!
 

PhatE1vis

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Sounds like you're letting her pedigree hold you back. Don't let it intimidate you (I'm an Ivy League grad myself, and let me tell you, it's really not a big deal). Obviously, coming up with a some perfect strategy to game a smart girl isn't working for you, she's seeing right through it, so I'd suggest you approach her like you would any other girl (as a MAN). If that doesn't work, then you didn't really lose anything because you never had it to begin with.
 

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It doesn't matter if she is smarter, faster, stronger or has 4 arms.

She is afterall a woman, and that shall never change. She will be attracted to quality men like all women.

Her being smarter is a plus, she is less superficial and you'd not have to play games with her.
 

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DROP the SHE DID SHE HAS .. what ever part, just go for it and do not adjust your tactics of what ever she has done,YOU have found her worthy enough of your time.. and what ever she thinks she will show eventually. anything else is more into the category of "what ever"
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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