"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Gaming a girl you work with

XxprodigyxX

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I recently got a new job a couple months ago and there's a girl I work with who I am trying to game. I would like to get some advice on how you would go about a girl you work with, without her thinking of you as just a co-worker or a friend. We've gone out for dinner one time and had a blast, but at work I try not to talk to her too much. Any advice?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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XxprodigyxX

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I work at a bank so everyone kinda knows about each other. So thats why I try not to talk to her much at work.
 

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Originally posted by XxprodigyxX
I recently got a new job a couple months ago and there's a girl I work with who I am trying to game. I would like to get some advice on how you would go about a girl you work with, without her thinking of you as just a co-worker or a friend. We've gone out for dinner one time and had a blast, but at work I try not to talk to her too much. Any advice?
Depends on how much you value your job. If you're pretty secure that you won't lose it, then go balls out.

"You wanna go hit happy hour after work...." is always a good thing.
 

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I am positive i am not going to lose the job. I just wanna be sure i am making the right moves (taking her out, not talking to her much at work, c&f s**t., etc)..oh and Xerix... were both not 21 yet...soon..but not quite yet...so what SHOULD be the next move?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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