"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Gaming a girl you work with

XxprodigyxX

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I recently got a new job a couple months ago and there's a girl I work with who I am trying to game. I would like to get some advice on how you would go about a girl you work with, without her thinking of you as just a co-worker or a friend. We've gone out for dinner one time and had a blast, but at work I try not to talk to her too much. Any advice?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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XxprodigyxX

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I work at a bank so everyone kinda knows about each other. So thats why I try not to talk to her much at work.
 

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Originally posted by XxprodigyxX
I recently got a new job a couple months ago and there's a girl I work with who I am trying to game. I would like to get some advice on how you would go about a girl you work with, without her thinking of you as just a co-worker or a friend. We've gone out for dinner one time and had a blast, but at work I try not to talk to her too much. Any advice?
Depends on how much you value your job. If you're pretty secure that you won't lose it, then go balls out.

"You wanna go hit happy hour after work...." is always a good thing.
 

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I am positive i am not going to lose the job. I just wanna be sure i am making the right moves (taking her out, not talking to her much at work, c&f s**t., etc)..oh and Xerix... were both not 21 yet...soon..but not quite yet...so what SHOULD be the next move?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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