"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Gaming a girl you work with

XxprodigyxX

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I recently got a new job a couple months ago and there's a girl I work with who I am trying to game. I would like to get some advice on how you would go about a girl you work with, without her thinking of you as just a co-worker or a friend. We've gone out for dinner one time and had a blast, but at work I try not to talk to her too much. Any advice?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I work at a bank so everyone kinda knows about each other. So thats why I try not to talk to her much at work.
 

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Originally posted by XxprodigyxX
I recently got a new job a couple months ago and there's a girl I work with who I am trying to game. I would like to get some advice on how you would go about a girl you work with, without her thinking of you as just a co-worker or a friend. We've gone out for dinner one time and had a blast, but at work I try not to talk to her too much. Any advice?
Depends on how much you value your job. If you're pretty secure that you won't lose it, then go balls out.

"You wanna go hit happy hour after work...." is always a good thing.
 

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I am positive i am not going to lose the job. I just wanna be sure i am making the right moves (taking her out, not talking to her much at work, c&f s**t., etc)..oh and Xerix... were both not 21 yet...soon..but not quite yet...so what SHOULD be the next move?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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