"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What do you think about the move

  • That's a STRONG move to the hole, good chance she'll go for it

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Hard to say, could go either way, worth a shot

    Votes: 2 18.2%
  • I smell a b!tch slap coming, don't bother

    Votes: 4 36.4%
  • LAME!!!

    Votes: 5 45.5%

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Don_Marko

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Ok here's the deal... This HB8 and I went in same high school for our final year, had 2 classes that year spoke to one another only once.
We ended up at same university(small university), few lectures togheter have been seeing one another at gym/social events haven't spoken at all.
We're back in our hometown and see one another at malls and gym.
Everytime we see each other we just stare at each other, I can feel the tension and attraction. I would like to belive that she can too.

I wonder what you gentlemen think about this move.

*gym setting, she's doing her sets
me *go to her* say: Hi HB8
HB8: Hi
*all the time maintain strong eye contact
me: I had a dream about you
HB8: really? what was it about?
me: it went like this *brush her hair, touch her face and kiss her*

Again keep in mind we've been around one another for 3 years without speaking a word. I think that this has about 30-40% chance of succeeding, if it doesn't no big deal and if it does it'll be one of the smoothest pickups ever.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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SDBmania

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I'd say no. Close to being lame, like the line: "Did it hurt, when you fell down from heaven?"

Now of course there is a slight chance it will work, but I think you should not do the whole, "I had a dream about you." tactic. She might think your crazy. That's the sort of thing you could do with a woman you know well, but I'd not advice you to do that to someone you have only spoken to once.
 

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Crap... I neglected to mention that I would be trying that whole trance words/mirroring game BEFORE going for the kiss. Describing a dreamy setting, mention the two of us there, kissing passionatly, and then if her facial/body language say it's a go. Then go in for a kiss
 

SDBmania

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Hmm, well then. I guess that does change things. Still, I think the whole dream thing may be to soon to use. I mean, if you two knew each other better, it would be fine; since you could just laff it off as a joke. Still, you have a shot and if you don't mind getting shot down. Of course, I can't say what will happen, so if you feel up to it then I'd say go for it. She might like that romantic style. Just be careful. ;)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I'll be relying on the "he who dares wins" philosophy :cool:
 
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