"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What do you think about the move

  • That's a STRONG move to the hole, good chance she'll go for it

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Hard to say, could go either way, worth a shot

    Votes: 2 18.2%

  • I smell a b!tch slap coming, don't bother

    Votes: 4 36.4%

  • LAME!!!

    Votes: 5 45.5%
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Don_Marko

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Ok here's the deal... This HB8 and I went in same high school for our final year, had 2 classes that year spoke to one another only once.
We ended up at same university(small university), few lectures togheter have been seeing one another at gym/social events haven't spoken at all.
We're back in our hometown and see one another at malls and gym.
Everytime we see each other we just stare at each other, I can feel the tension and attraction. I would like to belive that she can too.

I wonder what you gentlemen think about this move.

*gym setting, she's doing her sets
me *go to her* say: Hi HB8
HB8: Hi
*all the time maintain strong eye contact
me: I had a dream about you
HB8: really? what was it about?
me: it went like this *brush her hair, touch her face and kiss her*

Again keep in mind we've been around one another for 3 years without speaking a word. I think that this has about 30-40% chance of succeeding, if it doesn't no big deal and if it does it'll be one of the smoothest pickups ever.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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SDBmania

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I'd say no. Close to being lame, like the line: "Did it hurt, when you fell down from heaven?"

Now of course there is a slight chance it will work, but I think you should not do the whole, "I had a dream about you." tactic. She might think your crazy. That's the sort of thing you could do with a woman you know well, but I'd not advice you to do that to someone you have only spoken to once.
 
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Crap... I neglected to mention that I would be trying that whole trance words/mirroring game BEFORE going for the kiss. Describing a dreamy setting, mention the two of us there, kissing passionatly, and then if her facial/body language say it's a go. Then go in for a kiss
 
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SDBmania

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Hmm, well then. I guess that does change things. Still, I think the whole dream thing may be to soon to use. I mean, if you two knew each other better, it would be fine; since you could just laff it off as a joke. Still, you have a shot and if you don't mind getting shot down. Of course, I can't say what will happen, so if you feel up to it then I'd say go for it. She might like that romantic style. Just be careful. ;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'll be relying on the "he who dares wins" philosophy :cool:
 
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