"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Game lost!,girls that use to like me don't now!

ryanvalmont

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Well about 7 months ago i was at the height of my game

i was ****y and sooooooooo full of myself it was amazing,i'de go clubbing and always get girls all the time.

then i went on holiday,but before i went i bragged BIGTIME i'de pull loads of girls...turns out i pulled NONE..NONE!!

Since my holiday 3 months ago now,i've gone down town clubbing every week and hardly ever get lucky anymore..

Also this girl who couldn't keep her hands off me like 5 months ago was down there friday and saturday and didn't seem too intrested in me,WHAT'S HAPPEND TO ME?.

I'm at an all time low with girls,but my confidence is still high,the only thing i can think it is is that i have a little bit of acne that might be stopping me from being my old self.

Anyone else have this happen to them before?,i just wanna get back to my old self again.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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crackhead

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man, if you havent lost your confidence, just don't even think about it and get some more atbats
 

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i keep making exscuses saying the club has too many girls with boyfriends and there too good for me.

Maybe i should set up some challenges for this friday and satuday night?.
 

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don't go to a club to pick up...girls often don't.
 

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None on holiday is a bad number, lol... I hope you didn't do Malia, Faliraki, Ibiza and the typical lads holiday... its harder to not pull!

As for '5 months ago' girl... that was five months ago, shes met X number of guys since then... I don't know what you got up to with her the first time round, if it was nothin then she got fed up and you missed your chance... if you did, then it was just a matter of time and she's gone on to other pastures...

Maybe you said it yourself... you used the phrase 'get lucky', maybe you were just lucky!?

And Acne is never a good thing... girls be well into their men with the designer stubble, more 'lad' and manly lookin... acne puts you back into high school zone, it may be fickle but the majority of girls are all about the clear skin... if grease and oil are troubles then some sessions on a sunbed will do wonders to dry your skin out and keep spots at bay...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ryanvalmont

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Yeah it hit's you hard when you become an afc after being at the highest you've ever been at your game.

I have no idea what i'll do about it,maybe i'll try something new this weekend....

Anybody have any ideas?.
 

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Originally posted by ryanvalmont
Yeah it hit's you hard when you become an afc after being at the highest you've ever been at your game.

I have no idea what i'll do about it,maybe i'll try something new this weekend....

Anybody have any ideas?.
I wish I knew, man. I'm kind of going through the same thing right now...for about 6 months now.

Don't get me wrong, I've got a lot of confidence in myself right now and I still get girls interested...I've got a date this friday. But at the same time, I don't have the "mojo", the drive I used to have...or the social presence for that matter.
 
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