“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Colossus

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Scenario 1:

1. Burned by girl, revelation
2. Learn stuff, get laid
3. Get laid more
4. Start a blog
5. Get weirdly political
6. Use smug ego for lulz and $$$

Scenario 2:

1. AFC
2. Anger
3. Get laid some, but not the quality/quantity you'd like
4. Blame society and women
5. Take on extremist views
6. Flame all other philosophies and never advance as a man

Scenario 3:

1. Decent with women, but not a natural
2. Learn a lot, develop whole self
3. Get laid as a result
4. Teach other bros
5. Self acceptance
6. Choose awesome woman, move on with your life


:D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Peaks&Valleys

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That's pretty accurate, good stuff.
 

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Scenario 2 is the most common. We need to change that and make Scenario 3 the most common.
 

zekko

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Good insight. Although recently on this forum, scenario 3 would get you labeled as a beta you-know-what. I have to say the atmosphere on this forum has improved 1000% since the clean up.
 

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samspade said:
What do I care what these two random women want? They're not MY wives. I only know what I want and like, and am going to choose women accordingly.
Right, it's always better to choose what you want, than to pick someone and then try to change them into what you want. That rarely works, IMO.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm probably a mixture of 1 & 3 but very interesting. I see alot of guys turning to write blogs and a whole lot of number 2 guys on here that ignore ignore and ignore self improvement methods and blame the girls, society and themselves.

Interesting thread.
 

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You don't see a lot of #3 because when they start fixing their problems, you see them around less.

Pook is in Nirvana, not b!tching online like #1 and #2. Same with dbot and a couple others, including ones that used to frequent this site but now married and left it. SoSuave is like a hospital of sorts, only sick people frequent this place, or those who were once sick and want to help others find "the cure". So really I'm not surprised if it seems we have a lot of #1 and #2.
 
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