She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
The only exception to this is if you are running steroid cycles because your body is then able to assimilate far more protein than you could otherwise...it basically takes the regulator off the engine.yannick43 said:I actually got banned from a bodybuilding forum for stating the exact same thing as you, Bill Pearl who was a pro bodybuilder back in the 70 said he barely ate 80G of protein per day.
I tested this on myself and my body looks the same as when i was chugging down 200g per day.
Even Vince Gironda egg and steak diet twice per day is around 120g of protein depending on the size of the steak.
A lot of people are allergic to whey protein, bloating gas, digestive problems. But its the staple of any bodybuilding supplement never the less.
Waste of money.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Hey Konada, nice to see you're still around. What does a typical days eating look like for you?Konada said:Just switched over to ICF 5x5. Progression in loads are increasing nicely but I cant seem to pack on mass. Been stuck at 120lbs for quite awhile now. Is this a case of just not eating enough?
I So wish I could handle anabolics better than I can...my body trips out on anything more that a slightly higher than TRT doseage. I mean hell, 30mg a week of Tren was about to shut down my fvcking kidneys...yannick43 said:I respect anyone that uses anabolic i am not against them at all but i know there effect on me not for me.
I do not wanna use steroids anymore, i am doing it naturally and when i got my Cuba shape i did it natural too.
The only reason i am gonna inject T once more is when i go see a medical doctor and he gets a blood test showing i have low T.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Because the human body is incapable of violating the laws of physics by creating mass out of nothing.Tenacity said:I'm not really that knowledgeable on the "bulking" side of things, but why is everybody saying to "eat more"?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
It's just another instance of the old myth of "bulking for mass" appearing. As has been said already, you cannot "eat more" to get bigger muscles if they are already getting the fuel they need. If you eat more than you need to, you will get fatter, and that's it. Muscle mass is defined by hormones, not food intake, that's why someone on steroids can basically eat anything while fat boy just gets a bigger gut and a set of titties from gulping down chicken breast all day. Eat slightly more than maintenance and you're set.Tenacity said:Yeah guys, I'm just not understanding this at all. When you guys refer to "mass" you are referring to body weight in general (body fat), not MUSCLE mass, correct?
So basically you guys are going out here looking to increase your body fat percentages so you can put on some "size" or some "mass"?
Can someone please explain to me how that makes any type of sense lol? I mean we can spend 20 pages talking about how unhealthy this is to eat processed food in large amounts on a daily basis, but you would be putting on large amounts of body fat in the process? When you tell chicks that you workout, none of them would believe you.
I'm confused here........
So correct me if I'm wrong here? This is what you guys are saying:AAAgent said:bulking is essentially the process of eating a sh1t ton of food to gain more mass/weight. The mass/weight will inherently be part muscle and part fat. It's easier to eat processed food because it cheaper and sometimes more convenient. Either way, eating a sh1t ton of food will make you bigger and if you are bulking, you can either start cutting once you're done and eat healthier and thereby getting rid of all that nasty fat/carb weight and maintaining the muscle weight.....or if you're eating healthier to begin with, it will probably be more expensive but a better cleaner bulk.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.