Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
The only exception to this is if you are running steroid cycles because your body is then able to assimilate far more protein than you could otherwise...it basically takes the regulator off the engine.yannick43 said:I actually got banned from a bodybuilding forum for stating the exact same thing as you, Bill Pearl who was a pro bodybuilder back in the 70 said he barely ate 80G of protein per day.
I tested this on myself and my body looks the same as when i was chugging down 200g per day.
Even Vince Gironda egg and steak diet twice per day is around 120g of protein depending on the size of the steak.
A lot of people are allergic to whey protein, bloating gas, digestive problems. But its the staple of any bodybuilding supplement never the less.
Waste of money.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Hey Konada, nice to see you're still around. What does a typical days eating look like for you?Konada said:Just switched over to ICF 5x5. Progression in loads are increasing nicely but I cant seem to pack on mass. Been stuck at 120lbs for quite awhile now. Is this a case of just not eating enough?
I So wish I could handle anabolics better than I can...my body trips out on anything more that a slightly higher than TRT doseage. I mean hell, 30mg a week of Tren was about to shut down my fvcking kidneys...yannick43 said:I respect anyone that uses anabolic i am not against them at all but i know there effect on me not for me.
I do not wanna use steroids anymore, i am doing it naturally and when i got my Cuba shape i did it natural too.
The only reason i am gonna inject T once more is when i go see a medical doctor and he gets a blood test showing i have low T.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Because the human body is incapable of violating the laws of physics by creating mass out of nothing.Tenacity said:I'm not really that knowledgeable on the "bulking" side of things, but why is everybody saying to "eat more"?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
It's just another instance of the old myth of "bulking for mass" appearing. As has been said already, you cannot "eat more" to get bigger muscles if they are already getting the fuel they need. If you eat more than you need to, you will get fatter, and that's it. Muscle mass is defined by hormones, not food intake, that's why someone on steroids can basically eat anything while fat boy just gets a bigger gut and a set of titties from gulping down chicken breast all day. Eat slightly more than maintenance and you're set.Tenacity said:Yeah guys, I'm just not understanding this at all. When you guys refer to "mass" you are referring to body weight in general (body fat), not MUSCLE mass, correct?
So basically you guys are going out here looking to increase your body fat percentages so you can put on some "size" or some "mass"?
Can someone please explain to me how that makes any type of sense lol? I mean we can spend 20 pages talking about how unhealthy this is to eat processed food in large amounts on a daily basis, but you would be putting on large amounts of body fat in the process? When you tell chicks that you workout, none of them would believe you.
I'm confused here........
So correct me if I'm wrong here? This is what you guys are saying:AAAgent said:bulking is essentially the process of eating a sh1t ton of food to gain more mass/weight. The mass/weight will inherently be part muscle and part fat. It's easier to eat processed food because it cheaper and sometimes more convenient. Either way, eating a sh1t ton of food will make you bigger and if you are bulking, you can either start cutting once you're done and eat healthier and thereby getting rid of all that nasty fat/carb weight and maintaining the muscle weight.....or if you're eating healthier to begin with, it will probably be more expensive but a better cleaner bulk.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.