"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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G/F wants her stuff back ??

TxCowboy

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I got a text msg this morning saying that she wants her items back (Swim shoes, 6 small candles, a cd, disposable camera, body sponge) She lives 45 minutes away and I dont even feel like making an effort to .... any thoughts ???
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Better yet, do what I did to my ex. When she decided she didnt want to be with me anymore, I gathered all her belongings (Clothes, jewelery, lingerie, lotions, perfumes, footwear, jackets, ect) that I had bought her, put them into 2 large plastic bags, and unceremoniously dumped them at the local landfill. When she called the next day asking for them, I told her with her new found "freedom" she should feel free to go to the landfill and sift through the rotting garbage in search of her expensive leather coat. She hung up on me, and 4 years later, still harbors a grudge for that. I thought I was being generous, as I even was going to give her the general location where I threw the bags.
 

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I'd just spend the $10.00 and mail the stuff to her. So for $10.00 she is gone. Or just give the stuff to a mutual friend.

Any other option involves making personal contact - I'd give her stuff back.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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if she want's EM back -> she must get them
if you want HER back -> you bring it to her (won't work but hell.. you get to see her)
 

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I disagree if UPSing... If she is not worth it and by now you should know... then let her come pick it up... Obviously be in a rush when you give her the package...
 

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Originally posted by MacDiddy
Is she your Ex or your GF???
Oops ... she just became my ex last friday ... i just quit calling her back and responding to her text's .... personally, i could care less to c this h0 ever again since she doesnt wanna even be with me.... For all i care , i would just assume message her back "do you need the address for the local lanfill?" :D

the stupid thing about all this is that everything she wants back is not even worth the price id pay to ship it back to her .... and im just waiting to c if she makes a big deal out of it and if this escalates :D
 

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tell her your new gf already helped you pack it up and she can come get it but needs to call first.
when she calls say oh yah come get that stuff its been here in my way.
when shes on her way, leave the box by your front door and go out.
make her just have to get her stuff and split with no confrontations.
if its still there when you get home, throw it out.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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she only wants the stuff to have a confrontation with you.

why be there to fight?
 

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Higher a very attractive call girl for 1 hour you dont need to have sex with her but you might aswell. tell your ex gf that your new gf packed the **** up and she will be at your house between 4-5 or whatever time. When she comes to pick it up have the call girl answer the door. your gf will be jelous because the call girl is hotter than her and you moved on so quick.
 
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