"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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G/F wants her stuff back ??

TxCowboy

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I got a text msg this morning saying that she wants her items back (Swim shoes, 6 small candles, a cd, disposable camera, body sponge) She lives 45 minutes away and I dont even feel like making an effort to .... any thoughts ???
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Better yet, do what I did to my ex. When she decided she didnt want to be with me anymore, I gathered all her belongings (Clothes, jewelery, lingerie, lotions, perfumes, footwear, jackets, ect) that I had bought her, put them into 2 large plastic bags, and unceremoniously dumped them at the local landfill. When she called the next day asking for them, I told her with her new found "freedom" she should feel free to go to the landfill and sift through the rotting garbage in search of her expensive leather coat. She hung up on me, and 4 years later, still harbors a grudge for that. I thought I was being generous, as I even was going to give her the general location where I threw the bags.
 

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I'd just spend the $10.00 and mail the stuff to her. So for $10.00 she is gone. Or just give the stuff to a mutual friend.

Any other option involves making personal contact - I'd give her stuff back.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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if she want's EM back -> she must get them
if you want HER back -> you bring it to her (won't work but hell.. you get to see her)
 

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I disagree if UPSing... If she is not worth it and by now you should know... then let her come pick it up... Obviously be in a rush when you give her the package...
 

TxCowboy

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Originally posted by MacDiddy
Is she your Ex or your GF???
Oops ... she just became my ex last friday ... i just quit calling her back and responding to her text's .... personally, i could care less to c this h0 ever again since she doesnt wanna even be with me.... For all i care , i would just assume message her back "do you need the address for the local lanfill?" :D

the stupid thing about all this is that everything she wants back is not even worth the price id pay to ship it back to her .... and im just waiting to c if she makes a big deal out of it and if this escalates :D
 

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tell her your new gf already helped you pack it up and she can come get it but needs to call first.
when she calls say oh yah come get that stuff its been here in my way.
when shes on her way, leave the box by your front door and go out.
make her just have to get her stuff and split with no confrontations.
if its still there when you get home, throw it out.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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penkitten

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she only wants the stuff to have a confrontation with you.

why be there to fight?
 

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Higher a very attractive call girl for 1 hour you dont need to have sex with her but you might aswell. tell your ex gf that your new gf packed the **** up and she will be at your house between 4-5 or whatever time. When she comes to pick it up have the call girl answer the door. your gf will be jelous because the call girl is hotter than her and you moved on so quick.
 
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