Better yet, do what I did to my ex. When she decided she didnt want to be with me anymore, I gathered all her belongings (Clothes, jewelery, lingerie, lotions, perfumes, footwear, jackets, ect) that I had bought her, put them into 2 large plastic bags, and unceremoniously dumped them at the local landfill. When she called the next day asking for them, I told her with her new found "freedom" she should feel free to go to the landfill and sift through the rotting garbage in search of her expensive leather coat. She hung up on me, and 4 years later, still harbors a grudge for that. I thought I was being generous, as I even was going to give her the general location where I threw the bags.