"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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FWB Moved In - Needing EXPERT Advice on this Unique Situation

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You cannot move in with a girl your trying to game. That's common sence there. Your going to f8ck something up. I just hope your gettin paid for rent.
 

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dnscache said:
I'll keep it simple:

1. Had a friend from back in high school (21 now) who I reconnected with. I was no idiot this time around and went in for it quick, making out *heavy* right off the bat the first night we hung out again. Well, long story short, her living situation was ****ty and 2 rooms opened up in my house. I offhandedly offered a temp place while she looks for a better situation. She took me up on the offer (after much assurance that it "wouldn't be a bother").

2. We haven't had sex - yet. Each night ends up with her in my bed making out hard for a long time.

So, where do I take this? My goal is actually LTR. I was infatuated with this one in HS for the longest time, stopped talking for years, and now it's back and right where I want it to be. But, it's a weird situation. Maybe she just wants to fool around (and eventually go further?).

Advice is appreciated on how to handle this one.
sex for rent is prostitution
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Oh Man This Is A Disaster Waiting To Happen.

Mods Sticky This Before The Fireworks Starts.
 

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dnscache said:
@Pierce: Yeah you're probably right. I mean, it has only increased the amount of fooling around for the time being, but I see where that could f*ck things up down the road. So I'm looking for advice on how to hit a homerun on this one.

She knows I'm severely wanted by multiple others - I had a girl staying with me for a week from out-of-town when we first started hanging out. Just broke up with an LTR a couple months ago and the mention of her gets this girl kind of riled up - it's funny.
Yea, It's increased the time of you guys screwing around because it is still fairly new. Seeing eachother everyday will get old quick and will start to become awkward after some time.
 

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dont be naive OP. after a certain amount of time living there with you rent-free while not working you may end up paying alimony. even while not married.

check your local laws. chick are roaches and your house is a sugar bowl.

once you let roaches in your sugar bowl they never leave. you would have to throw out the whole bowl.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The girl- DNScache is so nice for letting me live at his place #niceguyfail.
 
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