"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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FWB Moved In - Needing EXPERT Advice on this Unique Situation

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You cannot move in with a girl your trying to game. That's common sence there. Your going to f8ck something up. I just hope your gettin paid for rent.
 

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dnscache said:
I'll keep it simple:

1. Had a friend from back in high school (21 now) who I reconnected with. I was no idiot this time around and went in for it quick, making out *heavy* right off the bat the first night we hung out again. Well, long story short, her living situation was ****ty and 2 rooms opened up in my house. I offhandedly offered a temp place while she looks for a better situation. She took me up on the offer (after much assurance that it "wouldn't be a bother").

2. We haven't had sex - yet. Each night ends up with her in my bed making out hard for a long time.

So, where do I take this? My goal is actually LTR. I was infatuated with this one in HS for the longest time, stopped talking for years, and now it's back and right where I want it to be. But, it's a weird situation. Maybe she just wants to fool around (and eventually go further?).

Advice is appreciated on how to handle this one.
sex for rent is prostitution
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Oh Man This Is A Disaster Waiting To Happen.

Mods Sticky This Before The Fireworks Starts.
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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dnscache said:
@Pierce: Yeah you're probably right. I mean, it has only increased the amount of fooling around for the time being, but I see where that could f*ck things up down the road. So I'm looking for advice on how to hit a homerun on this one.

She knows I'm severely wanted by multiple others - I had a girl staying with me for a week from out-of-town when we first started hanging out. Just broke up with an LTR a couple months ago and the mention of her gets this girl kind of riled up - it's funny.
Yea, It's increased the time of you guys screwing around because it is still fairly new. Seeing eachother everyday will get old quick and will start to become awkward after some time.
 

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dont be naive OP. after a certain amount of time living there with you rent-free while not working you may end up paying alimony. even while not married.

check your local laws. chick are roaches and your house is a sugar bowl.

once you let roaches in your sugar bowl they never leave. you would have to throw out the whole bowl.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The girl- DNScache is so nice for letting me live at his place #niceguyfail.
 
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