"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
fvcked hb8 in bathroom at work
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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lizardking82
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I didn't approach because they were kind of pre-occupied with each other.
So at the end of the night - closing time - I go out to smoke and she's standing there. I ask her for a lighter. Then I commend her: "You look quite civilized. Where do you work? At a bank or something?"
She tells me she works in a handbag store or something. I say "oh that's nice, my mom is into handbags and shoes and stuff. And fur coats. Anyways you and your friend there are the 2 best chicks in this place."
So then she says thank you and tells me how she likes my muscles, says that a nice muscular upper back, muscular chest and delts is really sexy on a man.
So we went inside and she introduced me to her friend. I was sort of tired so I said: "So tell me something.... I'm interested in..... both of you." She responds: "Hey we're going home together you know", to which I reply: "Lol wtf I didn't even ask you anything". But we loled.
Anyways the girl took my hand and did a little twirl so we ended up hugging. Then we started making out. I asked her for her number cuz it was closing time.
I took her phone as per my new protocol, call myself, and get her to text me a message. Mission accomplished, I figure. Thought I'd reached end game.
She goes to the bathroom. I go to the other end of the bar (close to the girls bathroom coincidentally). She comes back out. Goes to her friend. Then goes back into the bathroom, but before she goes in, she unzips her pants (the zipper was on the side) showing me her naked hip and asscheek, and says: "I need to use the bathroom". Well, you don't need to tell me what that means. So I join her. We go in the bathroom. She actually pulls down her panties and sits down to take a piss in front of me. I'm thinking to myself: lol crazy *****. So I actually tell her that "gek wijf" in dutch which kind of means something like crazy *****. Then I proceed to making out with her. When she was done pissing she wiped her vag, then I fingered her, she took off my pants and sucked on my d*ck, then she turned around and I fvcked her doggy. (let me remind you during this whole entire seduction was during closing time lol so there wasn't even any music or anything).
The very same second her friend came knocking on the door for her to come out, I was shootin a load, half into her pvssy, some on the floor, some on her leg. Was a quicky but I finished right on time.
So that was it. I exited the bathroom stall, greeted my colleagues and asked for a beer. Had myself a cigarette and just chilled out, lol.
No protection but I whatsapped her and it turns out she's on the pill.
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Risking your job for a woman. Trusting a woman is telling you the truth about birth control or her sexual health.
This is not likely to end well.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
No but she's on the pill. In the whatsapp convo she said she didnt think anything happened at all. I told her to go to the pharmacy. Then she said she was on the pill and blocked me in whatsapp lol.
So it's over, was just a ONS.
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When you said this it made me think of one I pulled once. This was back in 2007-2008, somewhere in there. Back in my heavy drinking', plate spinning, and partying days. I think I posted this story several years ago here on SS:
Back at a previous job my boss and I were really good friends. Best friends even. One time he made a smartazz comment to me that he was gonna bring his GF in the office and fvck on my desk. So what did LL do? The office was located right on a strip in a downtown area with a lot of bars and partying going on. How convenient. So one weekend I took a chick into the office after a heavy night at the bars and I really DID have sex on the boss's desk. Then first thing Monday morning I told him all about it. Show him exactly where my bare azz was sitting and gave him every grave detail of it all. lmfao I've never seen anyone go get cleaning supplies and frantically clean anything like that in my life! He scrubbed that damn desk 100x better than hospital operating room standards!!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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It is a numbers game, sometimes you just need to be the right man in the right time and place
, not downplaying OPs adventures of course.
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We were never worried she was on the pill or not
We were actually talking about disease.... the ones that comes from sex
Pleasant stuff.... some last longer than a ONS or a pregnant women
But congrats for the lay
Drunk and on coke I think.
True but my game has improved a bit cuz I'm watching a lot of RSD tyler's video's. Authenticity game + frame control = good outcome.It is a numbers game, sometimes you just need to be the right man in the right time and place
She was talking to dudes all night btw and that's why she was so ****faced. My colleague said that they were buying her drinks all night.
Then I came in and she wanted my cawk more than theirs so I gave it to her.
xD
PS: Concerning STD's, sure u never know. Suppose it's about time I get myself checked out. But she was a HB8 blonde dutch girl with money right. So STD chances are low imo. Worth rawdogging.
Still about time for a checkup though.
NSX-R
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.