"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Fvck Buddies?

SharinganUser

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I am really interested in how to get a fu#$ buddy. I've talked to more than one woman about it and they all give me the same bull**** answers. :box:
They say it's not worth it and that they don't want to see me get hurt. Even if I do get hurt, I don't really care because I will survive. I've had one night stand. How is the FB thing any different?

From what I know about the FB thing is that you have to have sexual tension.

All I want to know is how do I get a FBuddy? :D
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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D_Master

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Its not something that you just ask for and it happens. I guess it could happen like that but I have found that its generally someone who alread wants you physically nd you f**k her and she is willing to continue to have sex with you even without a commitment. But to ask someone to be a f**k buddy probably won't get you much success.
 

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fcuk her REALLY good 1st time around, and she'll keep coming back.......worst case scenario will be that she wants to be your gf, in which case u can just make her believe shes your gf and continue gettin with other girls anyway (thus to YOU, shed be a **** buddy)
 

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I guess it doesn't really help that I don't find any of my female friends all that attractive.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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D_Master said:
Its not something that you just ask for and it happens. ..
Yeah, I thought it was strange that this type of thing is discussed and/or contracted.

"Excuse me, which do you prefer? Flame broiled or fried?"
"Would you like to save a ton on your car insurance?"
"Would you consider having a relationship with me that consisted of only freaky, circus weasel sex?"
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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