"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Fvck Buddies?

SharinganUser

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I am really interested in how to get a fu#$ buddy. I've talked to more than one woman about it and they all give me the same bull**** answers. :box:
They say it's not worth it and that they don't want to see me get hurt. Even if I do get hurt, I don't really care because I will survive. I've had one night stand. How is the FB thing any different?

From what I know about the FB thing is that you have to have sexual tension.

All I want to know is how do I get a FBuddy? :D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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D_Master

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Its not something that you just ask for and it happens. I guess it could happen like that but I have found that its generally someone who alread wants you physically nd you f**k her and she is willing to continue to have sex with you even without a commitment. But to ask someone to be a f**k buddy probably won't get you much success.
 

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fcuk her REALLY good 1st time around, and she'll keep coming back.......worst case scenario will be that she wants to be your gf, in which case u can just make her believe shes your gf and continue gettin with other girls anyway (thus to YOU, shed be a **** buddy)
 

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I guess it doesn't really help that I don't find any of my female friends all that attractive.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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D_Master said:
Its not something that you just ask for and it happens. ..
Yeah, I thought it was strange that this type of thing is discussed and/or contracted.

"Excuse me, which do you prefer? Flame broiled or fried?"
"Would you like to save a ton on your car insurance?"
"Would you consider having a relationship with me that consisted of only freaky, circus weasel sex?"
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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